Loving my husband means helping him improve, right? Busted! With The Six Intimacy Skills™ I realized being “helpful” in wife language is actually “critical” in husband language. When I switched out the cast iron he was using to cook the bacon in, took over the holiday travel plans, undid how he loaded the dishwasher for crying out loud, the message I was sending was, you’re wrong and I’m right. Now it’s clear why my husband lost motivation to take initiative. I was totally un