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I want to talk about that tiny little space between: “I would LOVE…” and… “Yeah… BUT…” 😂 Because I think we’re actually pretty good at having desires. We’re also REALLY good at immediately talking ourselves out of them. “I’d love to paint the house… but it’s expensive.” “I’d love to take the kids to Great Wolf Lodge… but he hates the city.” “I’d love a night completely to myself… but that's selfish." “I’d love Mexican tonight… but everyone else probably wants pizza.” Look ho

Are you convinced your husband doesn't care about you? Ouch! But you wouldn't have picked a total jerk, you're too smart for that.

Saying "WE need" instead of "I would love." This is controlling and he will smell this a mile away. True Story.

The words “I want” were trained out of me as a kid. Saying “I want” was selfish.