5 Steps to Rx The Hot Mess Express ⭐️
- Stephanie Terry
- 21 hours ago
- 2 min read
Ever get stuck in the masculine hustle when what you really crave is your feminine flow?

This weekend, after a stomach bug explosion (you know the kind) decimated our twins, I was scrubbing the bathroom and muttering to myself when my husband walked in. I told him I needed to watch a YouTube video to figure out how to attach the front license plate to my new car. He looked at me a little wounded and said, "Babe, you don't need YouTube. I've got you." Cue the lump in my throat. I was so deep in Hot Mess Express mode, I'd forgotten I have a capable, loving partner right there, passing me the Clorox wipes. It was time reclaim my feminine power💥
Drop the scorecard. You don't need to "earn" rest. You were born worthy. Give yourself permission and remember- rest is productive.
Practice Receiving. Let your husband open the jar, throw chicken nuggets in the air fryer for dinner, and load the dang dishwasher however he wants to. Say "thank you" instead of "I've got it."
Trade Control for Connection. When you feel that urge to direct or correct- Breathe. Smile. Let go. Who knows, you might even like it!
Prioritize pleasure like it's your job. Hot tub in your birthday suit, get a ladder and climb to the roof of your house for that fresh perspective, send voice notes to your ride-or-die, use essential oil spray in the shower for a spa like experience at home. Your Inner Queen will thank you!
Trust - Your partner. Yourself. Life. It's all unfolding perfectly without you micromanaging it. Faith over Fear✨
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