Ladies, flirting isn't just for date nights or your honeymoon phase, it's the everyday sparks that keep you feeling like soulmates instead of roommates. Want to spice it up and get back into girlfriend mode? Let's Go🔥🔥🔥

1. Wear His Gift + Brag on Him

   Put on something he gave you and show it off. It doesn't matter if it's gardening gloves or diamond earrings, the gift doesn't have to be sexy, but your vibe will be.

2. Put Your Phone Down

   When he's talking, be an active listener. Respect is like oxygen to men. Look him in the eye, lean in, and show him he's a priority.

3. Smile Like You Mean It

   When he walks in the door, light up. Stop chopping veggies, pause the email, and choose the connection over multi-tasking. A 15 second smile can change everything💥

4. Casual Touch = Big Energy

   Touch his arm, smack his butt, rest your chin on his shoulder. Those playful little touches scream: I'm into you!

5. Drop Inside Jokes

   Dying of laughter together is my second favorite act of intimacy with my husband. Whether you've been with your partner for 20 years or 20 weeks, you share intimate details no one else knows about. Flaunt this!

6. Admit When He's Right (Yes, Really😂)

   If you get the chance to say, "You were right about that..." DO IT! Vulnerability is sexier than being a know-it-all.

7. Share Your Daydreams

   Tell him what's floating around in your head. Mine? My husband and I, Costa Rica, skinny dipping under the stars after the kids are asleep☺️

8. Whisper Naughty In Public

   Lean in at Home Depot and whisper something he can't act on until later. Bring up a toe curling intimate experience, or how sexy he looks mowing the lawn. This is foreplay, ALL day.

9. Be Magnetic

   The sexiest thing I wear is a smile. Share that fun and light energy- the new mountain bike ride, the nap that saved your life, a mom friend complimenting your kiddos. Beaming you = Irresistible you 🧲

10. Reminisce When He Was Your Hero

    Bring up that time he navigated the right channel on a braided river, he packed the extra dry socks on a wet backpacking adventure, he found your daughter's stuffed animal smooshed in the truck. Expressing gratitude and championing your partner softens your heart and let's face it, we all love being appreciated❣️

    
    
    
    

Pro Tip: Flirting with your husband isn't about how he looks, it's about how you feel. When you're lit up, and confident, he can't help but be drawn to you. Expectations breed resentment, but energy? That builds attraction.

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